You know... I can never understand.. how when you date a guy.. and then he hardly talks to you for days at a time when he is out of the state, and a text message or phone call is all that can be achieved if he would only try.  So you try to talk to them about it and they tell you they are doing their best and you break up, only for them to start dating some other girl a couple weeks later that he talks to and spends time with constantly..... Hmmmm I never get it either since said guy always say they love you and even wanted to marry you..... I think most men are just simply put pigs that think they deserve something.  When in a relationship there has to be trust and loyalty, but when it begins to crumble then it is time to try to work it out, and when one of the party choose to not fight for the other you know they just honestly don't care.  But do not worry ladies ^^  There is a decent, gentleman out there just waiting for us beautiful, loyal girls someday